ELEMENTS

 

OF

 

SOUND

 

DOCTRINE

 

 

TITUS 2 : 1 - 8

                                         

 

 

 

Georgie Meets Andy

    “My dad bought thirteen acres east of Fort Dodge and made an old barn into a house.  We lived there until I was about nineteen.  In 1936 I came into Dodge City and got a job taking care of three kids.  I worked six days and had Sunday off.  I got fifty cents a day.  I met Warren A. Lierle (Andy) and we dated for about eight or nine months.  On April 22, 1937 we were married.

     The pastor of the Church of God lived in the basement of the church so we were married in their living room.  His name was W. W. Wilburn.  The church was at 1110 Avenue C.--it is still there

     We lived in a one room apartment that was upstairs on Front Street.  We had to share a bathroom down the hall.  Front Street is not there any more, it was torn out to put the Highway through town.  The street is now Wyatt Earp.  We did not live there  very long .  We moved to a house on Mulberry that had three rooms.  At the time it was not very modern but it is still standing and has been remodeled--looks nice.

     After that we moved to an apartment on Avenue B.  Again we were not there very long and moved into an old store building on Military Street, and then again to a house on Avenue F.  This house had four rooms and it was not modern either!

     In July of 1940 I left Andy and got a job at a rooming house.  Shortly thereafter I found out I was expecting.  I worked for about two months when my mother and dad decided to go back to Arkansas, so I went with them.  After we got to Arkansas they both got a job with an older couple--my dad did chores and mom did the cooking and the house which left me along all day.  I had nothing to read except the Bible which I had been given by an old street preacher in Dodge.  So I read and read and read.  I promised the Lord if He could help us get back together I would start to church and find out how to be a Christian.  One day a sheriff drove into the yard with a subpoena--Andy was suing me for divorce.  My mother hit the ceiling--"He could not do that", she said, "If anyone was getting a divorce it would be me."  So I said, "Amen, Lord."  She wrote back to Dodge and ask Leona and Florence to send me a bus ticket.  They did and I landed back in Dodge around the first of November 1940.  We met at the lawyer's and your dad decided he would take me back.  I told him to find a place to live and move our stuff.  He got a little two-room house at 1008 Avenue A.  We moved in on Tuesday, November 11, Armistice Day.  That was the day the treaty was signed (ha).  The next night we went to prayer meeting and everybody nearly fainted.”

 

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                Mother was expecting my older sister Patricia Ann.  I would come two years later, December 2, 1943.   Because a street preacher was faithful to give out the Word of God my mother was convicted and returned to uphold her marriage vows.  I was born into the First Church of God and was born again under its teachings at age seventeen at camp meeting.  I will soon celebrate my own thirtieth wedding anniversary.  Why?  Because of the elements of sound doctrine.

 

ELEMENTS OF SOUND DOCTRINE

TITUS 2 : 1 - 8

 

          But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:   That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.   The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour  as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;   That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,   To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.   In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity,   Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you. (emphasis mine)

 

(1)..Speak-up-SOUNDLY, i.e., Sound Doctrine.     II Timothy 4: 2-4

 

                          Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

 

          Preach, in season or out of season, convient or not, acceptable or not.          Reprove  in accord with  the law.   Rebuke because the law has been broken.  Exhort to do right because it is the right thing to do.  Preach, rebuke, and exhort with long-suffering and doctrine.  Give God, time, and the Word a chance to work but speak up soundly.  One of these days they won’t listen and you must make as much of an indention with the Word as you can.  Do you want to listen to sound doctrine?  The Apostle Paul first addresses. . .

 

(2)..The aged men

 

          How old is a man?  How old is old?   Psalm Ninety, verse ten says we are allowed three-score and ten or seventy years.  If you divide seventy by two (the number of witness) you get thirty-five.  That is old enough to have, at least partially,  raised a family.  So Paul now addresses the aged or mature family man.  Are you a family man?  Have you raised children?  Then God is speaking to you.  So listen up!  God ask you to be. . .

 

          Sober: (this will come up again later).  I Timothy 3:2

 

                                A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of           good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

 

In the requirements for the office of Bishop it is  required that the man under consideration have the personal quality of soberness.  What is soberness?  It is circumspectness;  it is self-controlled passion.  Webster defines it as carefully attentive to all circumstances that may relate to an action, judgment, or conduct.  This includes family life, business, and social activity.  a man should not be appointed or ordained to office without good testimony.  That is why a Levitical Priest had to be age 30 before taking office (Num. 4:3).  He must also be. . .

 

          Grave:  (this will also come up again)  I Timothy 3:8

 

                    Likewise must the deacons be grave, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre;

 

The office of Deacon requires a man of maturity with the quality of gravity.  The man under consideration must be honorable and honest.  Such an office requires that a man be serious in thought to that which is important and weighty.  Again this would entail a good family witness, which is exercised by being. . .

 

          Temperate:  I Corinthians 9:24-27

 

                    Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain. And every man that striveth for the mastery is         temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible. I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I, not as one that beateth the air: But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any         means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.

 

This is the athletic art of physical discipline and self control.  We are in a serious race against time and eternity.  Time for our time on earth as we have to deal with one another and our varied personalities.  The time that we all want to keep for ourselves but which others creep in and rob us of.  But that of eternity where we will either be with God or the demons of hell.  The man of maturity is to set an example for the younger by his seasoned self control.  As an example: when was the last time you lost your temper?  Or do you maintain control by using. . .

 

 

          Sound Faith:  II Timothy 1:5

 

                   When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.

 

The aged man, the mature Christian, is to be truthful in his religious profession.  He is to be without corruption, and true in his dealings and in his doctrine.  This means that you have to know what it is that you do believe and be able to express it to others and in the way you live.  People want to see a living witness, not just someone who has a lot of vocal verbiage.  People especially look at the family life of the leader.  How does yours measure up?  Is it a Mount Sinai of elements of. . .

 

          Charity:  Colossians 3:14

 

                    And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

 

Put on AGAPE.  It is to the Christian family what bond-dough is to an auto body shop.  If we are going to be a united church in the battles of this world then we must all wear the same dress of affection and  benevolence.  Our fellowship together must be a continual love feast.  We must get away from pettiness and formality and begin displaying true signs of care one for the other.  We have to get involved in the lives of  others.  We have to start giving up our earthly commodity of time.  It has been said that children spell love --           T I M E.  To give up this commodity will take a lot of. . .

 

 

 

 

 

 

          Patience: James 1:3-4

 

                   Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.   But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

 

In the realm of spiritual warfare we will often deal with wounded fellow soldiers.  One of the best personal qualities you can have toward these soldiers is patience.  The end result of having patience is a wanting of nothing.  That means I don’t have any needs that need to be fulfilled.  That frees me to do what I can in fulfilling the wants and needs of others, especially the wounded soldier.  The mature soldier should have grown spiritually to this plain of patience.  One of these soldiers is the. . .

 

(3) Aged women

 

          Note the word “LIKEWISE”.  This is “in the same way or manner”.  The mature Christian woman must, as a woman, have the same qualities as the mature man.  From the Cottage Bible, Vol.II, (1884), p. 1307 we are given these words:

 

                   The female sex is the bond of union to society.  The various relations it successively fills--as of daughter, wife, and mother--are of vast importance,    and capable of the greatest advantages to mankind, especially as the means of forming the human character in early life.”

 

It has been said that “behind every good man is a good woman”, and “man may be the head, but woman is the neck that turns the head”.  There is also the proverb, “the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world”.  These qualities are completed by. . .

 

          Holy Behaviour:  I Timothy 3:2

 

                   A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good           behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

 

The behaviour of the mature man in the position of leadership is of most importance.  The same applies to their wives!  It is a Scriptural requirement that their behaviour  reflect a modest condition of orderliness in their position.  If the leader is afoul in his personal conduct then how can he lead the rest of the soldiers into productive warfare?  God’s holy woman is to be of the same character mold particularly in her role as a mother.  Any woman striving for this level of spiritual maturity would not be a. . . 

 

          False Accusers:  I Peter 4:15

 

                   But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men's matters.

 

An exhorter to Godliness and holy living will only address that which is true by the mouth of two or three witnesses and face to face with the accused (Mt. 18:15-16).   Certainly the mature woman would not be indulgent in. . .

 

          Much Wine: Ephesians 5:18-19

 

                   And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit;  Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;

 

We, as soldiers of the Cross, need to be filled with the Spirit, not with drunken wine.  This filling of the Spirit will result in both inner and outer singing of the psalms, hymns, and songs of Zion.  Again from the Cottage Bible, P. 1307 we have this description of the Psalm:

 

                   Psalms.--[Psalms, from psallo, to touch, or play on a musical instrument,       properly denotes such sacred songs or poems, as are sung to stringed instruments, and may here refer to those of David; hymns,  from udo, to sing, celebrate, praise, signifes songs to honour of God; and songs, from aeido, to sing, denotes any regular poetic composition adopted to singing, and is here restricted to those which are spiritual.]

 

An aged-mature spiritual woman -- filled with the Spirit -- cannot help but sing, and is filled with joy, is gladly a. . .

 

          Teachers of Good Things

 

Who tought John Wesley Greek?  His mother.  At age three the alphabet; at age five the language.  Who is going to teach the next generation how to raise children if not the past generation?  There are no courses on being family members.  The older women of the church are to teach the younger women.  But you cannot teach what you have not learned, and grown in grace to live up to, and you are responsible to teach. . .

 

(4)  The Younger Women

 

          Be Sober:  I Timothy 3:11

 

                   Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.

 

The Deacons wife!  See the discussion on sober under the Aged men.  The same is addressed to the young ladies.  Your roles as daughter, wife, and mother are serious roles and deserve your greatest sober attention for only as you apply God’s principles as taught by mature spiritual women will you be able to. . .

 

          Love & Obey Husbands, Love Children:  Ephesians 5:22 - 6:4

 

                   Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

 

Paul says that a primary responsibility of the mature elderly woman in the community of the church is to teach the younger women to love their husbands and their children.  Now why would a woman need to be taught to love her husband  or her children?  Because love is far more than an emotion that we fall in or out of.  Love is directly connected to your behavior.  Jesus said, “If you love me keep my commandments”.  John said in I John that you do not love your brother if you do not provide him the help he needs when you have the availability to do so.  Therefore, in the church community, if the mature women would take their responsibility and teach the younger women how to love their families the divorce rate in the church community would drop and the cooperation within the church would rise to a level beyond measure.  We fight and war because we have not learned to love.  We haven’t learned to love because we haven’t been taught, and because young women haven’t been taught they also do not know how to. . .

 

          (5) Be Discreet:  I Timothy 5:11-15

 

                   But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry; Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith. And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.

 

The highest calling of God for the Christian young lady is to bear children - to be a mother  and to guide the house -- to be a domestic engineer.  When we put other callings above this honor we  give an inch to the devil, and any time you give an inch to the devil he is sure to take several miles.  By the time you realize that he has done so it is a long journey to get back to were you opened the door.  Such a lack of responsibility on our part increases the level of the spiritual warfare and makes the Christian life harder, and the successive generations always reap the consequences.  It therefore becomes Christian young ladies to learn to be. . .

 

          Chaste: I Peter 3:1-6

 

                   Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Those adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

 

Chaste has to do with cleanliness.  The mature Christian woman will be modest in her appearance and behavior, and will have a testimony of perfect innocence.  Such pure behavior is the kind that will eventually lead a wayward husband to the Savior, and lend unity in the home and in the church.  There is nothing so ennobling as a woman who takes her role in the family in chaste seriousness.  She will be proud to be a soldier in the ranks of the.

 

          Keepers at Home: Proverbs 31:10-31

 

                   Who can find a virtuous woman?  for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.  She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.  She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.  She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.  She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.  She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.  She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.  She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.  She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.  She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.  She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.  Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.  She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.  Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.  She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.  She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.  Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.   Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.  Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.  Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

 

 

Mothers, could your children put this passage on your tombstone?  If not, why not?  If God says this is what a mature woman is to be, and you have access to the powers of glory, why aren’t you even close to conforming to this passage?  Why is the divorce rate in the world the same in the church if you are living according to this motto?  If this passage and the other passages concerning the role of woman in the family were your primary guide in the life you live the focus and aim of spiritual warfare would be changed to more important issues.  Now it is focused on family issues instead of the salvation of souls, and community care-giving.  We need to be about the Father’s business by having a. . .

 

 

          Pattern of Good Works:  I Timothy 5:9-10

 

                   Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man,  Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.

 

The elder - mature Christian woman has brought up children in the Lord, is a good hostess to others, is a servant to others both in and out of the church, is charitable toward the afflictions of others, and is constantly diligent in good works.  If, as the widow above, you are going to ask the church for sustenance you better be sure the first half of your life is in conformity with the character of a Godly woman.

 

 

                   Blessed are the mothers who love God, for their children shall not be ignorant of their Creator and His plans concerning them.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love the Word of God, for their children shall know of the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love the house of God, for their children shall enter there with them in the presence of God.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love to pray, for their children  shall feel the power of prayer and many shall find salvation.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love a family altar, for they shall have their reward in this world and in the world to come.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love to be companions to their children, for they shall be called understanding mothers.

                   Blessed are the mothers who love to fight life’s battles bravely with a strong and steadfast faith in God, for their children shall know where to find strength in time of need.   Author unknown.

 

 

 

Aged Men, Aged Women, Young Women, and. . . 

 

 

(6)  Young Men

 

          “LIKEWISE” the young men are to be Sober.  We’ve been here before.  It is time to get serious about the life of Christ in you and communicate that life in. . .

 

          (7)  Good Works: I Corinthians 15:58

 

                   Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.

 

If the young man is busy in the good works of the Lord he will not have time to get in trouble over the things of this world.  If you find yourself involved in worldly affairs then you need to seek a work and labor of love that you can do for the Lord.  You cannot be entangled in the world’s program and be pleasing to your Heavenly Father:

 

          No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.           2Tm:2:4:

 

We need to be separated in the world but not of the world.  Such an entanglement is serious. . .

 

          Gravity: already discussed and is complimented by. . .

 

          Sincerity: Philippians 1:16-17:

 

                   The one preach Christ of contention, not sincerely, supposing to add affliction to my bonds:  But the other of love, knowing that I am set for the defense of the gospel.

 

This person is genuine and incorruptible.  Say, why do you do, what you do, the way you do?  What is your purpose in the sincerity you display? 

 

Are you truly doing what you do for the glory of God in Christ?  Or are you just plainly seeking self-glorification?  Are you in contention or are you in love with God?  If you love God and serve Him out of that love it will lead you to. . .

 

          (8) Sound Speech: See sound faith in verse two.  Sound speech will lead to language that is based on the. . .

 

          Logos: the Word: Colossians 4:6

 

                   Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.

 

What are the words that proceed out of your mouth?  Are they sharp as a sword and cutting or do they minister grace to the hearer?  In the Navy it is said that you can tell a seasoned sailor by the saltiness of his language.  Sailors who have been in for a long time are called “salty” sailors or an “old salt”.  What does God think of your speech? Is what you say filled with His knowledge and grace or do you just pour salt in the wounds of others and make them hurt?

 

                   Isaiah 50:4

 

                    The Lord GOD hath given me the tongue of the learned, that I should know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary: he wakeneth morning by morning, he wakeneth mine ear to hear as the learned.

 

Have you grown in knowledge and grace enough    to where you are able to listen to the words and emotions of a person in pain and spiritual warfare and provide for them God’s answer to their specific problem?   Do you have any idea what words to speak to what pain?  Is your life in tune with the Holy Spirit and the Word that He can call to remembrance that which is in your heart and mind to use in a given situation?  Do you know how to speak the love of Jesus and the comfort and peace of the Holy Spirit to those soldiers who have been wounded?  Or to the stranger that needs to be taken in?  Can you set the captive free and let them cross over to the ranks of the. . .

 

 

 

          Uncondemned: Acts 24:16

 

                   And herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void of offense toward God, and toward men.

 

Paul has several things to say about the conscience and its relationship to others.  What about your conscience?

 

                   Acts:23:1: And Paul, earnestly beholding the council, said, Men and brethren, I have lived in all good conscience before God until this day.

 

                                Rom:2:15: Which shew the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and their thoughts the mean while accusing or else excusing one another;)

 

                                Rom:9:1: I say the truth in Christ, I lie not, my conscience also bearing me witness in the Holy Ghost,

 

                                Rom:13:5: Wherefore ye must needs be subject, not only for wrath, but also for conscience sake.

 

                                1Cor:8:7: Howbeit there is not in every man that knowledge: for some with conscience of the idol unto this hour eat it as a thing offered unto an idol; and their conscience being weak is defiled.

 

                                1Cor:8:10: For if any man see thee which hast knowledge sit at meat in the idol's temple, shall not the conscience of him which is weak be emboldened to eat those things which are offered to idols;

 

                                1Cor:8:12: But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their weak conscience, ye sin against Christ.

 

                                1Cor:10:25: Whatsoever is sold in the shambles, that eat, asking no question for conscience sake:

 

                                1Cor:10:27: If any of them that believe not bid you to a feast, and ye be disposed to go; whatsoever is set before you, eat, asking no question for conscience sake.

 

                                1Cor:10:28: But if any man say unto you, This is offered in sacrifice unto idols, eat not for his sake that shewed it, and for conscience sake: for the earth is the Lord's, and the fullness                      thereof:

 

                                1Cor:10:29: Conscience, I say, not thine own, but of the other: for why is my liberty judged of another man's conscience?

 

                                2Cor:1:12: For our rejoicing is this, the testimony of our conscience, that in simplicity and godly sincerity, not with fleshly wisdom, but by the grace of God, we have had our conversation in the world, and more abundantly to you-ward.

 

                                2Cor:4:2: But have renounced the hidden things of dishonesty, not walking in craftiness, nor handling the word of God deceitfully; but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God.

 

                                2Cor:5:11: Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men; but we are made manifest unto God; and I trust also are made manifest in your consciences.

 

                                1Tm:1:5: Now the end of the commandment is charity out of a pure heart, and of a good conscience, and of faith unfeigned:

 

                                1Tm:1:19: Holding faith, and a good conscience; which some having put away concerning faith have made shipwreck:

 

                                1Tm:3:9: Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.

               

                                1Tm:4:2: Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;

 

                                2Tm:1:3: I thank God, whom I serve from my forefathers with pure conscience, that without ceasing I have remembrance of thee in my prayers night and day;

 

                                Ti:1:15: Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.

 

If you have a good conscience then your normal pattern of behavior will be one with. . .

 

          No Evil: I Timothy 4:12

 

                   Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.

 

Be an example in your words -- in what you say; in your conversation -- in how you live; in your acts of charity -- in how you love; within you spirit -- in how you move; in your faith toward God before man -- in how you trust; and in all purity -- in how you demonstrate the life of Christ before the world. 

 

 

 

                   II Timothy 2:22

 

                   Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with    them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

 

Whom do you follow?  What do you follow?  Better it should be that you are the leader in righteousness.  Bob Jones Senior said, “Do right if the stars fall”.  You should follow the elders in the true exercise of faith and trust.  Those who set the right example in charitable brotherly love and live in peaceful harmony with others are those whom you should follow.  These are the ones the young man should follow and have fellowship with.  In so doing the young man will procure for himself a pure heart and be able to lead in his own circle of youth.